In The End It's The "What If's" That Matter Most

Do you ever stop and just think well "what if..." I do, all the time. About basically everything. And when you play the what if game it goes no where. It just gets you thinking about possibilities that didnt happen, or wont happen, or cant happen. its not productive. But then again, sometimes it is exactly what you need. When you stop and fantasize about what could have happened if one little thing was different. If you made one choice differently. Ultimately, I thrive on this game. It provides controversy, it makes you think, and usually you come out a better person. Not like life changing different usually. But it often makes you appreciate your decisions. Especially those ones that you had to make and really didnt have a choice about.

Or it can just give you a moment of peace with something so out there. For example, I mostly play the game with what ifs I cant control. Its as close as I can get to having control of a situation out of my control. So at the end of the day when you are letting your thoughts wander and your inner monolog take control dont stop the what ifs. Just let them happen and realize that they are important in their own way. What ifs can teach you a lot about yourself, and sometimes what you really want most.